You know how some children are naturally gifted athletes, while others are born artists? While it would be nice to be good at everything, sometimes our brains are just predisposed to work one way, rather than another. Understanding our child's temperament can go a long way towards raising the child we have, vs. the child we wish we had. And understanding our child's struggles in context, along with how our own temperament compares to our child's, can help to meet our needs, along with theirs.