Research-based ideas
to help kids thrive
Beyond The Behavior
Beyond The Behavior
question_answer
FREE monthly drop-in coaching calls (No commitment)
Second Wednesday of every month: 9-10:30 am Pacific
Transform your most challenging parenting moments into opportunities for connection and growth
Beyond The Behavior
Beyond The Behavior
question_answer
FREE monthly drop-in coaching calls (No commitment)
Second Wednesday of every month 9-10:30 am Pacific
Transform your most challenging parenting moments into opportunities for connection & growth
Are you tired of yelling, bribing, and battling with your child? Do you find yourself using the same strategies your parents used on you, even when they don't work?
You're doing your best as a parent, but something isn't clicking. Your child melts down over seemingly small things. They won't listen when you ask them to do something. You end up in power struggles that leave everyone upset.
Maybe you've tried timeouts, reward charts, or explaining the logical reasons why your child should cooperate. But these approaches often backfire or only work temporarily.
You're doing your best as a parent, but something isn't clicking. Your child melts down over seemingly small things. They won't listen when you ask them to do something. You end up in power struggles that leave everyone upset.
Maybe you've tried timeouts, reward charts, or explaining the logical reasons why your child should cooperate. But these approaches often backfire or only work temporarily.
Are you tired of yelling, bribing, and battling with your child? Do you find yourself using the same strategies your parents used on you, even when they don't work?
You're doing your best as a parent, but something isn't clicking. Your child melts down over seemingly small things. They won't listen when you ask them to do something. You end up in power struggles that leave everyone upset.
Maybe you've tried timeouts, reward charts, or explaining the logical reasons why your child should cooperate. But these approaches often backfire or only work temporarily.
You're doing your best as a parent, but something isn't clicking. Your child melts down over seemingly small things. They won't listen when you ask them to do something. You end up in power struggles that leave everyone upset.
Maybe you've tried timeouts, reward charts, or explaining the logical reasons why your child should cooperate. But these approaches often backfire or only work temporarily.
Drop in whenever you need support. No membership required. No ongoing commitment.
What if there was an approach that didn't require you to control your child's behavior? What if you could understand the real reasons behind your child's actions and find strategies that work for your whole family?
In our monthly group coaching calls, you'll discover how to:
Understand what your child is really trying to tell you through their behavior
Find solutions that meet both your needs and your child's needs
Handle difficult conversations with family members who question your parenting choices
Transform power struggles into collaborative problem-solving
Build the relationship with your child that you've always wanted
How It Works
How It Works
When: Monthly, 90-minute live group coaching sessions
person
Who: Parents of children ages 1-12
What: Bring your real parenting challenges and get personalized coaching in a supportive group setting
attach_money
Investment: Completely free!
access_time
Commitment: None - drop in as often or as little as works for you
Each call combines learning with live coaching. You'll hear other parents share challenges similar to yours and discover new perspectives on situations you face at home.
When you raise your hand with a question, you'll receive personalized support that helps you see your situation through a new lens.
How It Works
How It Works
When: Monthly, 90-minute live group coaching sessions
person
Who: Parents of kids ages 1-12
What: Bring your real parenting challenges and get personalized coaching in a supportive group setting
attach_money
Investment: Completely free!
access_time
Commitment: None - drop in as often or as little as works for you
Each call combines learning with live coaching. You'll hear other parents share challenges similar to yours and discover new perspectives on situations you face at home.
When you raise your hand with a question, you'll receive personalized support that helps you see your situation through a new lens.
Calls are recorded and the audio portion of some coaching sessions are released as episodes on the Your Parenting Mojo podcast.
Why This Approach Works
Why This Approach Works
Instead of trying to control your child's behavior through rewards and punishments, we'll explore what your child's actions are telling you about their underlying feelings and needs.
When we understand what's really going on, we can address the root cause rather than just managing symptoms.
You'll learn to see your child's "difficult" behavior as information about what they're experiencing internally. This shift in perspective opens up entirely new possibilities for how you respond.
What Parents Are Saying
What Parents Are Saying
I used to think my daughter was just being defiant. Now I understand she was trying to meet her need for autonomy. Once I saw that, we found ways for her to have more choice in her day, and the battles stopped.
Jen's coaching helped me realize that my reactions to my son's behavior were coming from my own unmet needs. When I addressed those first, everything shifted."
I was constantly defending my parenting choices to my mother-in-law. Now I have language to explain why I parent the way I do, and she's actually starting to understand.
1. Is this really free? What's the catch?
Yes, completely free. No catch.
You can attend as many or as few calls as you want with no commitment or pressure to purchase anything.
2. Do I have to attend every month?
Not at all! Drop in whenever you have a challenge you'd like support with or when you want to hear how other parents are navigating similar situations.
3. What if my child is younger than 1 or older than 12?
While our focus is on ages 1-12, many of the principles apply across age ranges. You're welcome to join and see if the approach resonates with your situation.
4. What if I can't attend the live call?
Recordings are available to members of the Parenting Membership. Live attendance gives you the chance to receive personalized coaching, but you'll still benefit from hearing other families' situations on the recording.
5. How is this different from other parenting support groups?
Most parenting advice focuses on techniques to change your child's behavior. We focus on understanding what's driving the behavior and finding solutions that work for everyone. You won't leave with a one-size-fits-all method, but with skills to navigate any situation that comes up.
6. What if my parenting challenge seems too personal or embarrassing to share?
You never have to share anything you're not comfortable with. Many parents find that hearing others discuss similar struggles helps them realize they're not the only ones facing these challenges.
7. Will you tell me what I'm doing wrong as a parent?
Absolutely not. We start from the assumption that you're doing your best with the tools you have. Together, we'll explore new tools and perspectives that might serve your family better.
8. What if my partner doesn't support this approach?
This is actually a common topic that comes up on our calls. We'll explore ways to have conversations with partners, family members, and others who might question your parenting choices.
9. What topics will be covered?
Each call is different because we respond to what parents bring up. Common topics include tantrums, bedtime battles, sibling conflicts, homework struggles, and navigating relationships with extended family about parenting choices.
Ready to discover a new way of understanding your child and your family dynamics?
Register above and join us for our next call - completely free, no strings attached.
Register above and join us for our next call - completely free, no strings attached.
Connect with us!
© Jen Lumanlan 2025 - All Rights Reserved