Posts by Jen Lumanlan
SYPM 019: Why are you always so angry?
149: How to set the boundaries you need
Explore the ongoing challenge of setting boundaries in parenting in this episode. We delve into the reasons why boundaries can be difficult to establish, rooted in patriarchal relationship norms. Additionally, we discuss how breaking down boundaries between ourselves and our communities can reduce stress and isolation, making parenting more manageable. Join the conversation to uncover the dynamics of boundaries in parenting and relationships.
148: Is spanking a child really so bad?
Dive into the contentious topic of spanking in parenting in this thought-provoking episode. Our guest, Professor Andrew Grogan-Kaylor, views spanking as an Adverse Childhood Experience akin to severe trauma. We explore the ethical dimensions of physical punishment and discuss the quirks of past research that once supported spanking’s efficacy. Discover alternative approaches to parenting that foster intrinsic motivation in children, without resorting to punitive measures.
SYPM 018: No Set Bedtime with Gila and Katherine
Join us in this insightful episode as we delve into the No Set Bedtime method. Explained and explored with listeners Katherine and Gila, we address their questions about implementing this approach with their young children, aged three and seven. Learn about the advantages and potential adjustments, along with how the No Set Bedtime approach can work for families. Don’t miss this enlightening discussion on bedtime routines.
SYPM 017: Reparenting ourselves to create empathy in the world with Amy
Join us in this powerful episode where Amy shares her journey of raising biracial children while reconciling her family history. Amy’s experiences lead her to a transformational path of dismantling patriarchy, treating people with respect, and developing new tools for healthy family dynamics. Don’t miss this inspiring conversation about reconciliation and healing.