Emotion Regulation

Woman in yellow polka dot shirt smiling while receiving a wrapped gift and hug from another person, illustrating holiday gift-giving between family members

Episode Summary 06: When Holiday Gift Boundaries Don’t Work (What Does?)

By Jen Lumanlan | Nov 23, 2025

When your parent keeps giving unwanted gifts despite clear boundaries, you’re not dealing with clutter. You’re grieving the relationship you wish you had.

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Episode Summary 05: How to Enforce Boundaries When Someone Doesn’t Respect Them

By Jen Lumanlan | Nov 9, 2025

Many parents set boundaries but struggle when others ignore them. Therapist Nedra Glover Tawwab shares practical strategies for enforcing boundaries through actions, not just words, when people repeatedly cross your limits.

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A distressed family sits on a living room floor - parents appear frustrated while two young children cover their faces with their hands, illustrating the emotional impact of family conflict.

255: Why Do I Keep Snapping? Parenting Rage When Your Childhood ‘Wasn’t That Bad

By Jen Lumanlan | Sep 21, 2025

Many parents with “normal” childhoods still struggle with anger and snapping at kids. Discover how unknown childhood trauma creates parenting triggers and learn practical strategies to break these cycles.

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A stressed mother sits on a bed holding a baby while her young daughter stands behind her

Episode Summary 03: How to Stop Yelling as a Parent: Emotional Regulation Techniques That Work

By Jen Lumanlan | Sep 7, 2025

Does your child’s behavior trigger instant, overwhelming reactions that have you yelling before you realize what happened? Learn the science behind why willpower isn’t enough and discover practical techniques that actually work.

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250: The Anxious Generation Review (Part 4): Should we ban cell phones at home?

By Jen Lumanlan | Jul 20, 2025

Why rigid phone rules backfire and what builds trust while keeping teens safe online instead.

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