Emotion Regulation

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241: Validating children’s feelings: Why it’s important, and how to do it with Dr. Caroline Fleck

By Jen Lumanlan | Mar 23, 2025

  What exactly is validation? Dr. Fleck defines it as communication that demonstrates you are mindful, understand, and empathize with another person’s experience, thereby accepting it as valid.   In this illuminating conversation with Dr. Caroline Fleck, author the book Validation, we explore the powerful concept of validation and how it can transform your relationship…

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240: How to prepare your kids for the real world

By Jen Lumanlan | Mar 16, 2025

  In this episode, we explore how to prepare children for the real world without sacrificing their authentic selves. Drawing on research about food habits, screen time, social expectations, and discipline approaches, this discussion offers balanced strategies that prioritize connection over control. You’ll learn how to guide children through external pressures while helping them develop…

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238: Feeling exhausted and overwhelmed? Tools to help you cope

238: Feeling exhausted and overwhelmed? Tools to help you cope

By Jen Lumanlan | Feb 16, 2025

  Feeling Overwhelmed by Parenting Stress? You’re Not Alone.   If you’re exhausted, stretched too thin, and struggling with the stress of parenting, you’re not the only one. Many parents—especially mothers—find themselves running on empty, constantly trying to meet everyone’s needs while their own go unnoticed. Parenting stress can leave you feeling frustrated, drained, and…

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How to heal the anger in your relationship with your spouse

236: How to heal the anger in your relationship with your spouse

By Jen Lumanlan | Feb 2, 2025

How to heal the anger in your relationship with your spouse Parent Laurie was doing really well when she had two kids. She had been with her partner for a long time, she had just achieved her first managerial role at work, and things were going great – so they thought it would be a…

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Children’s threats: What they mean and how to respond

235: Children’s threats: What they mean and how to respond

By Jen Lumanlan | Jan 26, 2025

Children’s threats: What they mean and how to respond   “If you don’t give me a lollipop, I won’t be your friend anymore.”  Said to a sibling: “If you don’t come and sit down, I’ll take your toy.”  “If you don’t give me candy before dinner, I’ll hit you.”   Has your child made threats…

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