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Taming Your Triggers
Fall Workshop
​​​​​​​2026

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All online; participate whenever fits your schedule
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You'll see dramatic change in ~30 mins/week for 10 weeks
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You already know you want to be a calm, confident, connected parent, and information alone hasn't helped as much as you want.  You'll make bigger changes faster when you process your learning in community with others.

​​​​​​​Taming Your Triggers
Fall Workshop
2026

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All online; participate whenever fits your schedule
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You'll see dramatic change in 30 mins/week for 10 weeks
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You already know you want to be a calm, confident, connected parent, and information alone hasn't helped as much as you want.  You'll make bigger changes faster when you process your learning in community with others.

What is the Taming Your Triggers workshop?

Taming Your Triggers is a 10-week, all online workshop for parents to help you feel triggered less often by your child's behavior.
The workshop is for you if you:
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Experience big reactions to your child's age-appropriate behavior that send you into guilt and shame spirals
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Have read the books, listened to the podcast episodes, and saved the Instagram memes - but in the stressful moments everything you know flies out the window
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Are desperate to make a change so you don't damage your kids, but don't know how to make it happen
The most effective way to be triggered less often is  to work through your patterns alongside other parents.  That's what you'll do in the Taming Your Triggers workshop.
What is the Taming Your Triggers workshop?
Taming Your Triggers is a 10-week online workshop to help you feel triggered less often by your child's behavior.
The workshop is for you if you:
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Experience big reactions to your child's age-appropriate behavior that send you into guilt and shame spirals
adjust
Have read the books, listened to the podcast episodes, and saved the Instagram memes - but in the stressful moments everything you know flies out the window
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Are desperate to make a change so you don't damage your kids, but just don't know how to make it happen
The most effective way to be triggered less often is to work through your patterns alongside other parents. ​​​​​​​ That's what you'll do in the Taming Your Triggers workshop.
Our triggers often keep us from becoming the parent we want (and know) we can be
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Finally understand why you have big reactions to your child's age-appropriate behavior
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Heal the hurts that create your big reactions
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Feel calm - no matter what happens!
      
If you're having struggles at home and have been thinking about joining Taming Your Triggers,
you are not alone...

      
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Dominique
Shannon
Amy
  
Real parents - just like you - are transforming their family life...
  
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Maile
Beth
Bryony
Jamie
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Liann
Wynne
Christina
Erin
Sara
Our triggers often
keep us from becoming the parent we want to be - and know we can be

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Finally understand why you have big reactions to your child's age-appropriate behavior
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Heal the hurts that create your big reactions
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Feel calm - no matter what happens!
      
If you're experiencing struggles at home and have been thinking about joining Taming Your Triggers,
you are not alone...

      
Jamie
Dominique
Shannon
Amy
  
Real parents
- just like you -
are transforming
their family life
...

  
Victoria
Maile
Beth
Bryony
Jamie
Sally
Liann
Wynne
Christina
Erin
Sara

If we haven't met before:
Hi! I'm Jen

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I host the Your Parenting Mojo podcast, which was named Best Research-Based Parenting Podcast by Lifehacker.

We aren't short on information on parenting: It's available everywhere online.

What you need is someone who can help you separate what's worth paying attention to from what isn't (I have a Masters in Psychology focused on Child Development and another in Education).

And because I'm a Co-Active Coach, I can help you go far beyond just memorizing the right words to say to your child, as you truly take on on this new way of being in relationships.

I've completed training at Levels 1 and 2 of the Gottman Method - so
I understand how couples' communication works and why you might be just as triggered by your partner as your child.
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Therapist-Approved Insights

"The Taming Your Triggers Workshop is an excellent tool for any parent interested in understanding the "why" behind their triggers. This workshop is trauma informed and aligns with best practices in trauma treatment.

As a trauma therapist, I see every day how unresolved stressors and trauma can show up every day if not addressed. This workshop is a great first step to mitigate trauma reactions from affecting our parenting. I highly recommend it!"


- Joanna Filidor, LMFT
 I do want to be clear that I'm not a therapist and this isn't therapy.
In addition to many 'regular' parents, I've also had therapists take the workshop to tame their own triggers... 
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Helping a therapist
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In this short video, therapist Sasha shares how the workshop helped her to go from knowing what to do, to actually doing it with her child

 Want to hear more about the tools Sasha is using to interrupt the cycle? 

Click here to see the full video >>

When you sign up for Taming Your Triggers you'll receive:

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10 modules of content spread over 10 weeks (the volume of reading is not huge and the pace is relaxed so that you can really take in the content, but you get LIFETIME access)
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Short weekly homework assignments to think about, write, and/or practice new tools with your child
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A not-on-Facebook community of parents who are on this journey together. We're all ready to support you.  There's NO requirement to be online at any specific time; participate on your schedule!
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The opportunity to connect with an AccountaBuddy to hold you (gently) accountable to make progress
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20+ Pattern-Breaking Practices to help you create the pause between your child's difficult behavior and your response
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How do I participate in the online workshop?

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Read the Content

Ten modules of content over the course of ten weeks starting on Monday October 12, each designed to shift the way you see your triggers and how you can feel less controlled by them.

Each module will take 5-10 minutes to read, with a 5-10 minute video as well (we keep the pace relaxed to make sure you can keep up, as well as process the emotions that may arise as you do this work).

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Do the Homework

Each one consists of a short quiz, exercise, or journaling prompt - most can be done in ~ 30 minutes. Do your Pattern-Breaking Practices (3-5 mins each!) on a daily basis and you'll start to see changes within a week.

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Participate in the Community

Ask questions, get answers, and receive ideas and support from me (I'm in the community answering questions almost every day) and the other workshop participants.

You'll get a chance to work with an AccountaBuddy to help keep you on track. We'll help you find someone in our non-Facebook private community - or bring your own friend!

Participate whenever you like - there's no requirement to be available at a certain time.  We have folks enrolled from around the globe.

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Watch the Atmosphere Shift in Your Home

• You feel triggered less often
• You're able to respond to your child more effectively when you are occasionally triggered
• You and your children are more connected and better able to work together to solve problems

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participate in the
online workshop?

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Read the Emails

Ten modules of content over the course of ten weeks starting on Monday October 12, each designed to shift the way you see your triggers and how you can feel less controlled by them.

 
Each module will take 5-10 minutes to read, with a 5-10 minute video as well (we keep the pace relaxed to make sure you can keep up, as well as process the emotions that may arise as you do this work). 

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Do the Homework

 

Each one consists of a short quiz, exercise, or journaling prompt - most can be done in ~ 30 minutes. Do your Pattern-Breaking Practices (3-5 mins each!) on a daily basis and you'll start to see changes within a week.

 
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Participate in
the Community

  Ask questions, get answers, and receive ideas and support from me and the other workshop participants (I'm in the community answering questions almost every day).

 
You'll get a chance to work with an AccountaBuddy to help keep you on track. We'll help you find someone in our non-Facebook private community - or bring your own friend!

Participate whenever you like - there's no requirement to be available at a certain time.  We have folks enrolled from around the globe. 

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Watch the Atmosphere Shift in Your Home

• You feel triggered less often
• You're able to respond more effectively when you are occasionally triggered
• You and your children are more connected and better able to work together to solve problems

If you're ready for real change -
for yourself, and for your kids... 

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Becoming a fulfilled parent
whose needs are met

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Chrystal learned tools to inspire genuine cooperation from her children where there used to be resistance and struggle.
If you're ready for real change -
for yourself, and for your kids... 

Deepening the Experience:  AccountaBuddies
You'll learn a lot by engaging with the content and being in our private community. Because you learn most by processing with others, an AccountaBuddy can help you get the most out of the workshop.

We'll help you match with someone who resonates with you, or sign up with a friend!

Communicate via your preferred method: phone, Zoom, text, email, and/or Marco Polos.

Each module has discussion questions, so you'll never struggle to find something to talk about.

We'll help you learn how to listen, empathize, and support your Buddy in finding their own solutions to the challenges they face - and they'll do the same for you!

It's also possible that you'll  become friends that far outlast the workshop.

That's what happened to Marci and Elizabeth.

 
Deepening
the Experience:
AccountaBuddies

 
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You'll learn a lot by engaging with the content and being in our private community. Because you learn most by processing with others, an AccountaBuddy can help you get the most out of the workshop.
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We'll help you match with someone who resonates with you, or sign up with a friend!

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Communicate via your preferred method: phone, Zoom, text, email, and/or Marco Polos.
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Each module has discussion questions, so you'll never struggle to find something to talk about.

We'll help you learn how to listen, empathize, and support your Buddy in finding their own solutions to the challenges they face - and they'll do the same for you!

It's also possible that you'll become friends that far outlast the workshop.

That's what happened
to Marci and Elizabeth:

Maximum Progress in 10 weeks:
Join the Group Coaching Calls

For Kaja, group coaching calls were the best part of the workshop
Some parents see the size of the gap between the way they're currently interacting with their children and the way they want to respond in difficult moments and want more personalized support.

These calls are included in the base price of the workshop.

We meet for 90 minutes every other week during the 10 week workshop, on Thursdays at 11am and 5pm Pacific (join whichever one fits your schedule best) starting on October 22. Calls are recorded in case you can't attend live.

People who are new to group coaching are often shocked that they learn just as much from seeing other parents being coached from being coached themselves. Very often after one participant describes a very unique experience, another participant will speak up: "You just described me. The situation was different but my experience was exactly the same."

Nobody is required to talk - it's a consent-based environment!

Why Traditional Anger Management for Parents ​​​​​​​Doesn't Work

 Most parent anger management programs teach you to control reactions in the moment.  This means they're treating the symptoms, not the cause.  Your explosive response when your four-year-old refuses to put on shoes isn't really about being late. That intensity comes from your own childhood experiences and unhealed trauma passed down through generations.

You probably already know peaceful parenting tools, but knowledge isn't enough. Real transformation happens when you heal the trauma living in your body and create safety in your nervous system, by processing your learning with others.

When you address root causes, you don't work so hard to manage anger - you're simply triggered less often. This is the difference between coping with triggers and actually healing them. 
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Finding ease in the chaos:
with our partners AND our children

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Now Jody can defuse conflict even in the most difficult moments between him, his wife, and his children - which isn't 'extra work' for him; it's part of his growth as a human being.

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Finding ease in the chaos: with our partners AND our children
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Now Jody can defuse conflict even in the most difficult moments between him, his wife, and his children - which isn't 'extra work' for him; it's part of his growth as a human being.

Breaking Generational Trauma: Real Parent Stories

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"I've been determined to break the generational trauma with my own children while holding my triggers like an inevitable nuisance at best and as only human when I lost it and react. It's so incredibly freeing to consider that possibility that I could lay down those chains all together.

I knew coming in that the work to do was my own and only my own. My children are quite literally perfectly imperfect. My triggers are about ME, not them. By doing MY work I free all of us from carrying unhealed pain forward into future generations. What I'm constantly searching for is HOW to do my work. What does "do my work" even mean?

The Taming Your Triggers workshop was a clear, concise and actionable path forward. The workshop gave me very clear steps to take toward being the mother I aspire to be by helping me heal my own hurt. 

Since the workshop I'm more patient and have greater capacity. And that's really saying something because it's summer; I'm with my kids 24/7 for 11 weeks!"

- K.D.

"I never would have imagined that my own childhood experiences were having such a huge impact on my daily life as a parent.

Through this workshop I've discovered that my outbursts aren't a character flaw, they're something that can be healed, creating a stronger, healthier relationship with my own children in the process."

- E.B.

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"I used to feel really alone and 'out at sea' with my triggered feelings; I didn't know how much my past trauma had impacted the feelings I have right now. Now I have a plan and support structure, and I've learned really helpful tools to change the way I talk with my children in these difficult moments.

I've realized that how I feel and behave sets the tone for the rest of my family, and when I felt triggered my actions haven't been aligned with my values. Now I have specific tools I can use that DO align with my values and believes, and that alone makes me feel more calm and grounded."

- M.M.

"Where do I start saying how this workshop has helped me? It has helped me to identify that I was even being triggered in the first place. I thought I was just an anxious person and there was no other way. Because of this workshop, I can now identify when I am triggered and step away from my narrow perspective, understand the root of the trigger from my past, and see the bigger picture including what my partner or child might be feeling and perceiving in that moment from me.

The whole workshop was really well structured to both give me insight and help find solutions that work for me. Now I understand much more about how the intergenerational trauma that has happened in my family is impacting my relationship with my son. And I had always known I had issues with my mom, but not the extent to which it affected me on an hourly basis - that module of content dropped a bomb on me that I never saw coming. I'm so glad that I learned tools in the workshop so I don't have to be ruled by that any more. I also learned what hypoarousal is - I saw that I probably spent 50% of my time in this state and had no idea it was even a thing.

I still get triggered and give in to impulse every once in a while now, but FAR less often. What I've learned in the workshop has improved my relationship with both my child and husband and even my relationship with myself. I can honestly say this is the most important and significant accomplishment I've had in my personal life... maybe ever. I wish there was a way to fully convey the value that parents who are experiencing these feelings will get out of this workshop."

- A.H.

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"The way the content was curated, sequenced, and explained made a lot of sense to me. Even though some of the material is already available online, the way the modules were planned out was really helpful on my journey of learning about triggers. The pacing of the workshop helped to give me enough space to do the self-reflection, have time to think over topics, and make the connections across the weeks. I enjoyed the support from other participants and supporting them as well.

I cannot stress enough how much weight this workshop has lifted off my shoulders. It has helped me to tie in everything I've learned on my own journey of respectful parenting, understanding why I was having such a hard time even though I had all the knowledge, and given me a framework to navigate the difficult moments I have with my child more effectively."

- J.F.

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Pattern-Breaking Practices
to Make Your Learning Real 

 
One of the core skills we learn in the workshop is how to create a pause between your child's difficult behavior and your triggered response using mindfulness-based tools. But too often we can access mindfulness when we're calm - and not when we're struggling.

The workshop provides a set of 20+ short (3-5 minutes!) audio practices to help you create the pause, and to heal from the hurts that have caused your triggered feelings. When you do these 2-3 times per day - this is about 1% of the minutes in your day - you will see a dramatic increase in your ability to remember and use these tools when you need them - and also avoid feeling triggered as often in the first place.

Once you have that pause, everything becomes possible.  We'll help you to work with your child to meet the need that's underneath their difficult behavior - and also meet your needs.
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When we care for ourselves,
we're triggered less often

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Liann used to struggle with parent anger... now she meets her needs first, not so she can be a better parent, but because she's human and deserves to have her needs met.

And from there, she's angry much less often.

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When we care for ourselves,
we're triggered less often

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Liann used to struggle with parent anger... now she meets her needs first, not so she can be a better parent, but because she's human and deserves to have her needs met.

And from there, she's angry much less often.

Support for Neurodivergent Families

 Maybe you know you're neurodivergent.

Maybe you're starting to wonder.

Or maybe you're parenting a neurodivergent child
and finding that traditional parenting strategies backfire.


However you got here, you might notice that your triggers show up differently than other parents describe.

Your nervous system might get overwhelmed faster.

Executive functioning challenges may leave you
with less capacity to regulate.

Demand avoidance could make it hard to use
the strategies you know would help.


Or your child's meltdowns might trigger you in ways
that seem impossible to manage. 

I've completed specialized training in supporting neurodivergent children and adults:​​​​​​​

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 Certified ADHD Professional (ADHD-CCSP) Intensive Training Course: Evidence-Based Strategies for Managing ADHD Across the Lifespan 

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 Neurodivergent-Affirming Executive Functioning Skills 

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Becoming a Neurodivergent-Affirming Clinician: Understanding ADHD and Autism through a Strengths-Based, Neurodivergent-Affirming Lens

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 Understanding and Supporting Demand Avoidance (PDA) and using the PANDA model​​​​​​​ 

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This means you'll find strategies in Taming Your Triggers that:

Work with your nervous system ​​​​​​​instead of demanding you override it

Account for sensory sensitivities, executive functioning challenges, and other neurodivergent experiences

Help you understand your triggers as communication about unmet needs - not personal failures

Respect that traditional "self-regulation" advice often doesn't work for neurodivergent brains

Support you in meeting your own need so you have more capacity for your kids - and yourself!

This approach helps you understand what's happening in your body and brain -
so parenting gets easier instead of constantly depleting you.

Support for
Neurodivergent Families

 Maybe you know you're neurodivergent.

Maybe you're starting to wonder.

Or maybe you're parenting a neurodivergent
child and finding that traditional parenting strategies backfire.


However you got here, you might notice
that your triggers show up differently
than other parents describe.

Your nervous system might get overwhelmed faster.

Executive functioning challenges
may leave you with less capacity to regulate.

Demand avoidance could make it hard to use
the strategies you know would help.


Or your child's meltdowns might trigger you
in ways that seem impossible to manage. 

I've completed specialized training in supporting neurodivergent children and adults:​​​​​​​

  Certified ADHD Professional
(ADHD-CCSP) Intensive Training Course:

Evidence-Based Strategies for Managing
ADHD Across the Lifespan  

Becoming a Neurodivergent-Affirming
Clinician:
Understanding ADHD and
Autism through a Strengths-Based,
Neurodivergent-Affirming Lens

 Neurodivergent-Affirming Executive
Functioning Skills
 

 Understanding and Supporting Demand
Avoidance (PDA) and
using the PANDA model​​​​​​​
 

Let's see if this is a good fit

Book a free 20-minute call with Associate Coach Denise, and tell her about the moments when you lose it
with your child and what you've already tried

She'll help you understand if Taming Your Triggers
​​​​​​​can give you the tools you're looking for.

No sales pitch - just honest guidance.

(And don't forget: we have a money-back guarantee!)

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BOOK YOUR FREE CALL!
Let's see if this is
a good fit

Book a free 20-minute call with
Associate Coach Denise, and tell her about the
moments when you lose it
with your child and
what you've already tried

She'll help you understand if Taming Your
Triggers can give you the tools you're looking for.

No sales pitch - just honest guidance.

(And don't forget: we have a money-back guarantee!)

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BOOK YOUR FREE CALL!

Breaking Generational Trauma: ​​​Real Parent Stories

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"I've been determined to break the generational trauma with my own children while holding my triggers like an inevitable nuisance at best and as only human when I lost it and react. It's so incredibly freeing to consider that possibility that I could lay down those chains all together.

I knew coming in that the work to do was my own and only my own. My children are quite literally perfectly imperfect. My triggers are about ME, not them. By doing MY work I free all of us from carrying unhealed pain forward into future generations. What I'm constantly searching for is HOW to do my work. What does "do my work" even mean?

The Taming Your Triggers workshop was a clear, concise and actionable path forward. The workshop gave me very clear steps to take toward being the mother I aspire to be by helping me heal my own hurt.

Since the workshop I'm more patient and have greater capacity. And that's really saying something because it's summer; I'm with my kids 24/7 for 11 weeks!"

- K.D.

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"I never would have imagined that my own childhood experiences were having such a huge impact on my daily life as a parent.

Through this workshop I've discovered that my outbursts aren't a character flaw, they're something that can be healed, creating a stronger, healthier relationship with my own children in the process."

- E.B.

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"I used to feel really alone and 'out at sea' with my triggered feelings; I didn't know how much my past trauma had impacted the feelings I have right now. Now I have a plan and support structure, and I've learned really helpful tools to change the way I talk with my children in these difficult moments.

I've realized that how I feel and behave sets the tone for the rest of my family, and when I felt triggered my actions haven't been aligned with how I want them. Now I have specific tools I can use that DO align with my values and believes, and that alone makes me feel more calm and grounded."

- M.M.

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"Where do I start saying how this workshop has helped me? It has helped me to identify that I was even being triggered in the first place. I thought I was just an anxious person and there was no other way. Because of this workshop, I can now identify when I am triggered and step away from my narrow perspective, understand the root of the trigger from my past, and see the bigger picture including what my partner or child might be feeling and perceiving in that moment from me.

The whole workshop was really well structured to both give me insight and help find solutions that work for me. Now I understand much more about how the intergenerational trauma that has happened in my family is impacting my relationship with my son. And I had always known I had issues with my mom, but not the extent to which it affected me on an hourly basis - that module of content dropped a bomb on me that I never saw coming. I'm so glad that I learned tools in the workshop so I don't have to be ruled by that any more. I also learned what hypoarousal is - I saw that I probably spent 50% of my time in this state and had no idea it was even a thing.

I still get triggered and give in to impulse every once in a while now, but FAR less often. What I've learned in the workshop has improved my relationship with both my child and husband and even my relationship with myself. I can honestly say this is the most important and significant accomplishment I've had in my personal life... maybe ever. I wish there was a way to fully convey the value that parents who are experiencing these feelings will get out of this workshop."

- A.H.

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"The way the content was curated, sequenced, and explained made a lot of sense to me. Even though some of the material is already available online, the way the modules were planned out was really helpful on my journey of learning about triggers. The pacing of the workshop helped to give me enough space to do the self-reflection, have time to think over topics, and make the connections across the weeks. I enjoyed the support from other participants and supporting them as well.

I cannot stress enough how much weight this workshop has lifted off my shoulders. It has helped me to tie in everything I've learned on my own journey of respectful parenting, understanding why I was having such a hard time even though I had all the knowledge, and given me a framework to navigate the difficult moments I have with my child more effectively."

- J.F.

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"Little bits of magic can happen..."
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Laurie's relationship with her husband has improved since she took Taming Your Triggers.  They're transforming 'logistical warrior' communication into being in love again.
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Pricing Options For Everyone

I never want financial issues to be the only reason that people who want to work with me can't work with me...and this business is my livelihood so if I can't earn money I can't continue to provide resources that thousands of parents find so useful.

The value you get out of the workshop depends on the work you put in. People who have really engaged with the material say that if they had known before they signed up how much it was going to change their lives they would have paid thousands of dollars to achieve these benefits.

If the pricing options shown don't work for you, please email support@yourparentingmojo.com to propose a price that balances the value you think you'll get from the workshop with what you can afford to pay.  If we can make it work, we will.

I invite couples and co-parents to participate in Taming Your Triggers, and request that each of you registers for the program separately.  This allows us to support you more effectively in the community, and to match each of you with your own AccountaBuddy.

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Pricing Options
For Everyone

I never want financial issues to be the only reason that people who want to work with me can't work with me...and this business is my livelihood so if I can't earn money I can't continue to provide resources that thousands of parents find so useful.

The value you get out of the workshop depends on the work you put in. People who have really engaged with the material say that if they had known before they signed up how much it was going to change their lives they would have paid thousands of dollars to achieve these benefits.

If the pricing options shown don't work for you, please email support@yourparentingmojo.com to propose a price that balances the value you think you'll get from the workshop with what you can afford to pay.  If we can make it work, we will.

I invite couples and co-parents to participate in Taming Your Triggers, and request that each of you registers for the program separately.  This allows us to support you more effectively in the community, and to match each of you with your own AccountaBuddy.

Enroll in the Online
Fall '26 Workshop

Enrollment closes Wed. Oct. 7 |  Begin Mon. Oct. 12
10 weeks  |  Participate on your schedule

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Add group coaching calls with Jen starting in Week 2 every Thursday 11am and 5pm Pacific. Recorded if you can't attend live; attendance capped at 20 participants​​​​​​​

$297

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We know it works - so we offer a money-back guarantee
We're completely confident that if you show up for the Taming Your Triggers workshop you will see some kind of change - from a shift to a complete transformation - that if you engage with the content, be in the community, and match with an AccountaBuddy and don't see a valuable change by the end of the workshop, we'll give you 100% of your money back.

Guaranteed. Just email us at support@yourparentingmojo.com and we'll take care of it. 

Enroll in the Online
Fall '26 Workshop

Enrollment closes Wed. Oct. 7    10 weeks  |  Begin Mon. Oct. 12

  There's no requirement to be online at a certain time, except for group calls
​​​​​​​if you choose that option

Taming Your Triggers
Fall Workshop

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Receive the module emails, content, and homework
check_box
Match with an AccountaBuddy to hold you (gently) accountable
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Hear the Pattern-Breaking Practices and see real shifts in just 1 week!
check_box
Process your learning with me in our community

$297

one-time payment; U.S. Dollars

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Sign Up Now!
Taming Your Triggers
Fall Workshop
​​​​​​​
+ Plus Five Group Coaching Calls
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Includes everything in the Taming Your Triggers Workshop
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Add group coaching calls with Jen starting in Week 2 every Thursday 11am and 5pm Pacific. Recorded if you can't attend live; attendance capped at 20 participants​​​​​​​

$597

one-time payment; U.S. Dollars

settings
Sign Up Now!
We know it works, so we offer a money-back guarantee
We're completely confident that if you show up for the Taming Your Triggers workshop you will see some kind of change - from a shift to a complete transformation - that if you engage with the content, be in the community, and match with an AccountaBuddy and don't see a valuable change by the end of the workshop, we'll give you 100% of your money back.

Guaranteed.

Just email us at support@yourparentingmojo.com and we'll take care of it.
 

 
This workshop for parents combines trauma-informed approaches with practical stress management techniques. Unlike traditional anger management for parents programs, we focus on healing the root causes of your triggers while supporting your mental health throughout the process.
 
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More dads are joining the workshop after seeing change in their partners
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Francesco has already seen shifts in himself after his wife took Taming Your Triggers; now he is ready to find his own path toward collaboration, trust, and ease with his family.
Common Questions About Parent Anger and Breaking Generational Trauma

Get answers to the most common questions about parent anger management and breaking generational trauma in your family.

1. How is this different from other workshops for parents?

Most parenting workshops focus on changing your child's behavior or teaching you techniques to use "in the moment." This workshop focuses entirely on you - healing the trauma and triggers that cause your intense reactions in the first place.

We're not looking for a cognitive shift where you just know more information. We're creating a non-cognitive shift in your nervous system so you actually respond differently. You'll have lifetime access to materials, daily support in our community, and optional AccountaBuddy matching for personalized accountability.

2. Is this different from other anger management for parents programs?

Completely different. Traditional anger management teaches you techniques to control your reactions - breathing exercises, counting to ten, walking away. This workshop heals the root causes of your triggers so you don't have to work so hard to manage your anger.

You'll understand why your child's behavior creates such intense reactions (hint: it's not really about your child), address the trauma and nervous system responses behind your triggers, and create lasting change rather than just coping strategies.

3. Will this help with breaking generational trauma in my family?

Yes, this is exactly what this workshop is designed to do. As one parent shared: "By doing MY work I free all of us from carrying unhealed pain forward into future generations."

You'll learn how your childhood experiences are impacting your daily parenting, understand how intergenerational trauma shows up in your reactions, and get specific tools to heal these patterns so they don't continue with your children. Many parents discover trauma impacts they never realized were affecting them "on an hourly basis".

4. How does this support parent mental health?

This workshop addresses the underlying trauma and nervous system dysregulation that contributes to parenting overwhelm, anxiety, and reactive patterns. You'll learn to recognize when you're in a mental state that makes you susceptible to being triggered, understand concepts like hypoarousal (which many parents experience without knowing it), and develop practices that support your mental health daily. Parents report feeling "more calm and grounded" and having their actions align with their values rather than being driven by past trauma.

5. How do I stop getting angry at my kids?

The key isn't trying harder to control your anger in the moment - it's healing what causes those intense reactions in the first place. You'll learn to recognize when you're in a mental state that makes you susceptible to being triggered, understand the trauma and nervous system responses behind your anger, and develop daily practices that help you stay regulated. When you heal the root causes, you're simply triggered less often.

6. How to stop yelling as a parent when nothing else has worked?

If you know all the peaceful parenting tools but still find yourself yelling, the problem isn't your knowledge - it's that your nervous system is hijacked by triggers. You'll learn stress management techniques for parents that address the underlying trauma and nervous system dysregulation. When you heal these root causes, you won't have to work so hard to avoid yelling - you'll naturally respond with more patience and understanding.

Logistical Questions & Answers
1. I want to do this, but I’m already spread wayyyy to thin. How much time is this going to take?

I hear you:-)

The amount of benefit you get for the work you put into this workshop is unparalleled.

You'll receive new content once a week which will take you 10 minutes to read. A homework exercise will take another 5-30 minutes. The Pattern-Breaking Practices will take 10-15 minutes each day.

You'll likely appreciate giving support to others and receiving it from them in our private community as you see that you are not alone on this journey.

It's a very minimal time commitment for what most parents find to be a life-changing benefit.

2. Do I need to be on Facebook to participate in the community?

No! I've been hearing from parents for a while now that they want to join my programs but don't want to be on Facebook, so I'm using a new (distraction-free!) service to host this community. No Facebook required.

3. Do you offer any kind of discount?
If you cannot afford even the lowest potential option, please get in touch at support@yourparentingmojo.com and propose a price that balances the value you think you will get out of the workshop and your ability to pay.

My ability to provide this option relies on other parents' willingness to pay the full fee. Please do pay the highest price you can afford.

4. I'd like to take this workshop with my partner. Do we need to pay twice?

Firstly, welcome! I definitely encourage couples to take this workshop together as it helps you to be more supportive of each other in the difficult moments because you'll both know how hard you're working on this. I ask that couples who are taking the workshop together each sign up individiually.

This enables each of you to be able to post and comment in our community, and also be matched with your own AccountaBuddy. Your partner has too much at stake in your relationship to be an effective Buddy - it sounds strange, but someone you'll never meet can provide a container for complete honesty as you're addressing trauma much more effectively than your partner can. You can always share your insights with your partner later!

If you cannot afford to pay for two enrollments at the full fee, please email support@yourparentingmojo.com and propose a price that balances the value you think you will get out of the workshop and your ability to pay.

Because this workshop offers so much support, it does add work for me and my team to support two people than to support one, and my ability to offer discounted pricing relies on other parents' willingness to pay the full fee. Please do pay the highest price you can afford.

5. Who will benefit most from the workshop?

If you find yourself having (what you feel to be) extreme reactions - whether these are the yelling/punishing kind, the shutting down kind, the walking away kind or even the "I'll do anything to make it stop" kind - to your child's age-appropriate behavior, this workshop is for you.

If you know all the peaceful/respectful parenting tools but just can't figure out how to apply them in the heat of the moment, this workshop is for you.

If you realize you've been trying to change your child's behavior so you won't have these kinds of reactions any more (so you're focusing on your child, instead of yourself), this workshop is for you.

6. For how long can I access the workshop materials?

You'll have lifetime access to the materials on our beautiful, custom-designed learning platform.

But please don't sign up for the workshop thinking "I don't really have time now but I'll sign up and come back to it later." I want you to gain the full benefit of being in the workshop and you're most likely to do that if you go through most of the material with the group, when we can support you in staying on track and answer your questions as you go.

7. How much access do I get to Jen during the workshop?


I'm in the community almost every day. This isn't me selling you a workshop and then waving goodbye as you go off and access all the materials by yourself, and talk only with the other participants.If you have a question, you'll hear thoughts shared by other participants, but you'll also get input from our community manager, one of our amazing peer coaches, and/or me.

We make sure you get the information and support you need to make progress on this journey.

Fortunately I type quickly, and you may even get long responses. But we are limited by how much I can physically type in the hours I have.

8. I'm still just not sure the workshop is right for me. How can I decide?

If you were my coaching client, I’d encourage you to take these steps to help you make the decision:

Ask your logical left brain: What are the benefits I would get from joining?

Ask your intuitive right brain and your body: Do I want to join? Do you feel a sense of longing or anticipation in your body as you imagine creating a different relationship with your child? Does it ‘feel’ like a fit, even if you can’t fully articulate why in words? We are taught to ignore our intuition in favor of rational arguments, but our physical sensations can tell us a lot about our experience if we know how to listen.

Ask both your logical left brain and intuitive right brain/body: What’s holding me back? Are you wondering how this could work when so many other tools you’ve tried have failed? Are you worried about needing to interact with other parents as you do this work? What’s behind these fears? Are these voices the ones that should make the decisions about your relationship with your child?

Cast your mind forward just ten weeks. What would you like your relationship with your child to be like by then? Would you like to feel confident that no matter what your child does, that you can respond (rather than react!) with calm and confidence - and that you won't wish afterward that you'd handled it differently? If so, come on in!

Have more questions? Just email support@yourparentingmojo.com and we’ll get right back to you.

9. Do I HAVE to match with an AccountaBuddy?

We highly encourage, but do not require you to match with an AccountaBuddy.

We tend to find that it isn't the knowledge I offer but rather how you process that knowledge in community with others that helps you to actually make the changes you want to see.  

You could certainly do that processing in our not-on-Facebook community.

The AccountaBuddy structure can also help you to stay on track with the content when life might otherwise get in the way, which is important to us because we want you to get the benefit you signed up for! We trust that you'll make the best decision for you.

10. How old should my child be for this to work?

Because these tools are grounded in understanding and meeting both your and your child's needs, there's no age where the tools don't 'work.'

Many parents in the workshop will have kids younger than 10, but there are usually some with older kids too. You're welcome to join no matter how old your kids are - we've even had grandparents join!

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