Posts by Jen Lumanlan
103: How to raise a child who uses their uniqueness to create happiness
Dr. Rose defines a Dark Horse as someone who uses a variety of unusual strategies like understanding their ‘micromotives’ and not worrying about their overall destination and to focus instead on more immediate goals to create a fulfilled life. In his book he focuses on the paths adults have followed to become Dark Horses, which…
The six skills children REALLY need to succeed as adults
Forget the flashcards and expensive programs. The skills your child really needs for future success can be learned through something as simple as folding laundry together – if you know what to look for.
Read Full PostWhen a crying child is a sign of good parenting
When my daughter melted down over a broken toy in the preschool parking lot, other parents might have thought I was failing. But sometimes a crying child means you’re doing something exactly right.
Read Full PostThe ultimate holiday gift giving guide
Last year my daughter campaigned for Hungry Hippos, insisting it accompany her new bike. She played it maybe ten times and it’s been untouched in her closet ever since. Here’s what really matters when choosing gifts.
Read Full PostThe respectful parent’s guide to surviving the holidays
Holiday gatherings with family can quickly turn from magical to meltdown-inducing. But with some thoughtful preparation and smart boundary-setting, you can actually survive them with your sanity intact.
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