Respectful Parenting

10 Years, 10 Lessons: Everything I Got Wrong About Parenting

By Jen Lumanlan | Sep 20, 2026

Ten years into the podcast, I go through ten things I got wrong. Here’s what a decade of research and real mistakes taught me.

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263: What’s Really Behind Your Child’s End-of-Day Meltdowns

By Jen Lumanlan | Apr 19, 2026

When your child holds it together all day and unravels the moment they get home, this episode helps you figure out what’s underneath and what to do about it.

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259: Understanding Why Your Child Hits (And What Actually Helps)

By Jen Lumanlan | Feb 15, 2026

When your three-year-old hits, they’re communicating unmet needs. Learn to identify the feelings and needs behind hitting, and discover practical replacement behaviors that work for everyone.

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Episode Summary 06: When Holiday Gift Boundaries Don’t Work (What Does?)

By Jen Lumanlan | Nov 23, 2025

When your parent keeps giving unwanted gifts despite clear boundaries, you’re not dealing with clutter. You’re grieving the relationship you wish you had.

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Episode Summary 05: How to Enforce Boundaries When Someone Doesn’t Respect Them

By Jen Lumanlan | Nov 9, 2025

Many parents set boundaries but struggle when others ignore them. Therapist Nedra Glover Tawwab shares practical strategies for enforcing boundaries through actions, not just words, when people repeatedly cross your limits.

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