Respectful Parenting

227: Where emotions come from (and why it matters) Part 2

By Jen Lumanlan | Oct 20, 2024

In our last conversation with Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett [Where emotions come from (and why it matters) Part 1] a couple of weeks ago we looked at her theory of where emotions originate. This has important implications for things like: How our ‘body budgets’ affect our feelings How we make meaning from our feelings so…

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226: Where emotions come from (and why it matters) Part 1

By Jen Lumanlan | Oct 6, 2024

Have you ever wondered where our emotions come from? Do you think that if you look at a person’s face, you can have a pretty good idea of how they’re feeling? But at the same time, do your child’s feelings seem mysterious to you, like you can’t figure them out? Listener Akiko introduced me to…

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225: How to stop shaming your child

By Jen Lumanlan | Sep 29, 2024

I know it can be really (really) difficult to bridge the gap between being the kind of parent we want to be, and the kind of parent we’re able to be in the moments when our kids do things we find difficult. We might know that we want our kids to receive a message of…

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Q&A#6: Am I damaging my child?

By Jen Lumanlan | Sep 15, 2024

Today’s episode comes from listener who submitted an emotional voicemail on the Ask Jen a Question button on the Your Parenting Mojo homepage, which boils down to: Am I damaging my child? The messages you can leave are limited to two minutes in length, so we get just a taste of what the parent is…

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223: What, Why, and How to Parent Beyond Power

By Jen Lumanlan | Sep 5, 2024

I know that when you start using new parenting tools, things don’t always go according to plan. Your kids don’t say what you think they will, or maybe you perceive that their behavior is just kind of crappy, or maybe your partner isn’t on board with your ideas. In this episode I address what to…

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