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074: Attachment: What it is, what it’s not, how to do it, and how to stop stressing about it

By Jen Lumanlan | Sep 30, 2018

Is attachment the same as bonding?  Can I have a healthy attachment with my baby if I don’t breastfeed? Do I have to babywear to develop an attachment to my baby? Will being apart from my baby disrupt our attachment relationship? Is co-sleeping critical to attachment?   These are just a few of the questions…

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072: Is the 30 Million Word Gap Real: Part II

By Jen Lumanlan | Sep 3, 2018

This episode revisits the concept of the 30 Million Word Gap concept, which we first covered in an interview with Dr. Doug Sperry a few weeks back. After she heard that I was going to talk with Dr. Sperry, Dr. Roberta Golinkoff – with whom we discussed her book Becoming Brilliant almost two years ago…

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069: Reducing the impact of intergenerational trauma

By Jen Lumanlan | Jul 22, 2018

Ever get red-hot angry at your child for no reason, or out of proportion to the incident that provoked it?  Have you wondered why this happens? The way we were parented has a profound impact on us – it’s pretty easy to ‘fall into’ parenting the way you were parented yourself unless you specifically examine…

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067: Does the Marshmallow Test tell us anything useful?

By Jen Lumanlan | Jun 25, 2018

The Marshmallow Test is one of the most famous experiments in Psychology: Dr. Walter Mischel and his colleagues presented a preschooler with a marshmallow.  The child was told that the researcher had to leave the room for a period of time and the child could either wait until the researcher returned and have two marshmallows, or…

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066: Is the 30 Million Word Gap real?

By Jen Lumanlan | Jun 10, 2018

You all know that on the show we pretty much steer clear of the clickbait articles that try to convince you that something is wrong with your child, in favor of getting a balanced view of the overall body of literature on a topic. But every once in a while a study comes along and…

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