Growth & Development

SYPM 011: Untigering with Iris Chen

By Jen Lumanlan | Jan 29, 2021

Discover the transformative journey of Iris Chen, as she shares her personal experiences and insights in her book “Untigering: Peaceful Parenting for the Deconstructing Tiger Parent.” Previously trapped in a cycle of control and power struggles with her son, Iris recognized the need for change and embarked on a path of peaceful parenting. Through her story, she emphasizes the importance of finding win-win solutions, flexibility, and respecting boundaries in fostering healthy parent-child relationships. Join us on this enlightening journey as we explore the concept of Untigering and its potential to create a society where everyone feels a sense of belonging.

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128: Should I Redshirt My Child?

By Jen Lumanlan | Jan 24, 2021

Discover the redshirting phenomenon and its implications for parents considering holding their child back a year before kindergarten or first grade. Explores the origins of redshirting in Malcolm Gladwell’s book “Outliers” and addresses the concerns raised by statisticians regarding its statistical claims. Gain insights into how redshirting may affect your child’s individual development and the classroom dynamics.

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SYPM 010: From Anxious Overwhelm to Optimistic Calm

By Jen Lumanlan | Dec 13, 2020

Listener Anne shares her parenting journey. From initially seeking perfection to finding peace as a perfectly good enough parent, Anne’s story inspires us to embrace imperfections and nurture positive relationships with our children. Tune in for valuable insights and reassurance in your own parenting journey.

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126: Problem Solving with Dr. Ross Greene

By Jen Lumanlan | Dec 6, 2020

In this episode, we explore the challenges parents face in problem-solving with their children and discuss an alternative approach to coercion. We interview Dr. Ross Greene, the creator of the Collaborative & Proactive Solutions method, as described in his books “The Explosive Child” and “Raising Human Beings.” We delve into the research behind this approach and address common parental concerns related to problem-solving. Topics covered include problem-solving with young children, dealing with recurring issues, managing transitions like leaving the park, and effectively communicating with children who struggle to express their feelings.

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125: Should you worry about technoference?

By Jen Lumanlan | Nov 20, 2020

Discover expert insights on managing screen usage around children in this informative episode featuring Dr. Jenny Radesky, a leading researcher in the field. Learn about the impact of screen time on child self-regulation and parent-child interaction, and explore practical steps to navigate and find balance in your own or your partner’s screen habits. Gain valuable knowledge to create a healthy digital environment for your family.

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