Respectful Parenting

173: Why we shouldn’t read the “Your X-Year-Old Child” books any more

By Jen Lumanlan | Dec 4, 2022

In this episode, I critically examine the popular parenting books “Your One Year Old,” “Your Two Year Old,” and so on, by Louise Bates Ames. I question whether these books should be used as a guide for understanding children’s development due to their problematic cultural context.

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168: Feeling Triggered by Current Events

By Jen Lumanlan | Oct 2, 2022

In this episode, we address the emotional impact of global events on parenting and offer strategies to regulate emotions and foster autonomy. If you’re dealing with triggered feelings from external factors or past traumas, this episode provides valuable insights and tools for effective navigation.

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166: Learning to trust your child – and yourself

By Jen Lumanlan | Sep 11, 2022

Claire’s journey through child-led learning and homeschooling highlights the importance of trusting your child and yourself as a parent. She’s found a way to balance her child’s natural curiosity and exploration with her own role as a guide on the side. This episode emphasizes the value of fostering compassion and self-compassion, both in ourselves and in our children, as we navigate the world of education and personal growth.

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161: New masculinites for older boys with Dr. Michael Kehler & Caroline Brunet

By Jen Lumanlan | Jul 17, 2022

In this thought-provoking podcast episode, we explore the concept of masculinity and its impact on children. We discuss how traditional notions of masculinity can affect both boys and girls, and offer insights on fostering alternative masculinities for a more holistic upbringing. Join us in this enlightening conversation with Dr. Michael Kehler, a Research Professor in Masculinities Studies, as we uncover ways parents can support their children in a changing world. Discover the keys to raising emotionally healthy kids.

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160: Wanting What’s Best with Sarah Jaffe

By Jen Lumanlan | Jul 3, 2022

Delve into a fresh perspective on parenting and privilege with Sarah W. Jaffe’s upcoming book. It sheds light on how the choices predominantly well-off, White parents make impact others, offering insights into aligning decisions with values. Stay tuned for the September 2023 release, a vital addition to the dialogue on parenting, privilege, and equality.

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