Respectful Parenting

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154: Authoritative isn’t the best Parenting “Style”

By Jen Lumanlan | Apr 24, 2022

Explore the world of parenting styles in this episode, including a surprising statement by Dr. Diana Baumrind, the creator of these styles. We delve into the effectiveness and impacts of different parenting styles, challenging common beliefs. Get ready for a thought-provoking discussion that reevaluates our understanding of authoritative parenting and the research behind it.

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153: Belonging: Remembering Ourselves Home

By Jen Lumanlan | Apr 17, 2022

Explore the wisdom of Toko-pa Turner’s book, “Belonging: Remembering Ourselves Home,” as we delve into the disconnection many of us feel from our true selves due to childhood experiences. It’s time to embrace our needs, seek help, and invite others to support us. Don’t miss upcoming opportunities to address your unmet needs and embark on a journey of self-discovery and fulfillment.

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SYPM 019: Why are you always so angry?

By Jen Lumanlan | Feb 20, 2022

Join Iris on her transformative journey as she learns to prioritize her needs and respond to her daughter’s behavior with empathy. Discover the power of self-compassion and empathy in parenting, reducing guilt and shame spirals along the way.

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148: Is spanking a child really so bad?

By Jen Lumanlan | Feb 6, 2022

Dive into the contentious topic of spanking in parenting in this thought-provoking episode. Our guest, Professor Andrew Grogan-Kaylor, views spanking as an Adverse Childhood Experience akin to severe trauma. We explore the ethical dimensions of physical punishment and discuss the quirks of past research that once supported spanking’s efficacy. Discover alternative approaches to parenting that foster intrinsic motivation in children, without resorting to punitive measures.

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SYPM 018: No Set Bedtime with Gila and Katherine

By Jen Lumanlan | Jan 30, 2022

Join us in this insightful episode as we delve into the No Set Bedtime method. Explained and explored with listeners Katherine and Gila, we address their questions about implementing this approach with their young children, aged three and seven. Learn about the advantages and potential adjustments, along with how the No Set Bedtime approach can work for families. Don’t miss this enlightening discussion on bedtime routines.

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