Respectful Parenting

What Carys wants you to know about your children’s feelings

By Jen Lumanlan | Apr 11, 2021

In this special episode, our young guest Carys provides valuable insights into children’s emotions and how parents can offer support. Explore practical tips for understanding and connecting with your child during challenging moments. Don’t miss this heartwarming and insightful conversation on parenting.

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129: The physical reasons you yell at your kids

By Jen Lumanlan | Feb 7, 2021

Discover the reasons behind yelling at our children, even when we know we shouldn’t, and why simply knowing what to do isn’t always enough to align with our parenting values. Explore how past trauma can trigger our responses to our children’s behavior, and how it’s important to take a different path and learn new tools to respond effectively. Understand the deep connection between these feelings and our bodies, and the significance of processing trauma to create a healthier parenting experience.

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SYPM 011: Untigering with Iris Chen

By Jen Lumanlan | Jan 29, 2021

Discover the transformative journey of Iris Chen, as she shares her personal experiences and insights in her book “Untigering: Peaceful Parenting for the Deconstructing Tiger Parent.” Previously trapped in a cycle of control and power struggles with her son, Iris recognized the need for change and embarked on a path of peaceful parenting. Through her story, she emphasizes the importance of finding win-win solutions, flexibility, and respecting boundaries in fostering healthy parent-child relationships. Join us on this enlightening journey as we explore the concept of Untigering and its potential to create a society where everyone feels a sense of belonging.

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SYPM 010: From Anxious Overwhelm to Optimistic Calm

By Jen Lumanlan | Dec 13, 2020

Listener Anne shares her parenting journey. From initially seeking perfection to finding peace as a perfectly good enough parent, Anne’s story inspires us to embrace imperfections and nurture positive relationships with our children. Tune in for valuable insights and reassurance in your own parenting journey.

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126: Problem Solving with Dr. Ross Greene

By Jen Lumanlan | Dec 6, 2020

In this episode, we explore the challenges parents face in problem-solving with their children and discuss an alternative approach to coercion. We interview Dr. Ross Greene, the creator of the Collaborative & Proactive Solutions method, as described in his books “The Explosive Child” and “Raising Human Beings.” We delve into the research behind this approach and address common parental concerns related to problem-solving. Topics covered include problem-solving with young children, dealing with recurring issues, managing transitions like leaving the park, and effectively communicating with children who struggle to express their feelings.

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