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141: The Body Keeps The Score with Dr. Bessel van der Kolk

By Jen Lumanlan | Jul 25, 2021

Learn from Dr. Bessel van der Kolk how trauma affects us not just in the mind but also in the body. Discover how past traumatic experiences can manifest in your parenting and daily life, impacting your emotional and physical well-being. Gain insight and tools to navigate the effects of trauma and seek the support and accountability needed for healing and growth.

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SYPM 013: Triggered all the time to emotional safety

By Jen Lumanlan | Jul 17, 2021

Learn how parent Chrystal transformed her approach, taking responsibility for her reactions instead of expecting change from her children and husband. Discover how she fostered her children’s agency, set boundaries, and achieved a more collaborative family dynamic. Explore her journey for parenting inspiration.

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140: Mythbusting about fat and BMI with Dr. Lindo Bacon

By Jen Lumanlan | Jul 4, 2021

In this episode, Dr. Lindo Bacon challenges common beliefs about obesity and its health implications. Discover how the messaging around weight loss and health is influenced by various factors, and explore the alternative perspective that questions the negative perception of body fat. Join the discussion to gain a fresh outlook on this controversial topic.

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139: How to keep your child safe from guns (even if you don’t own one)

By Jen Lumanlan | Jun 20, 2021

In this interview with Dr. Nina Agrawal, a pediatrician, we discuss essential topics like gun safety and violence against children. As children begin spending time indoors, parents should inquire about gun ownership and storage in homes where their kids visit. Dr. Agrawal also addresses the disparities in gun violence affecting children of color, emphasizing the need to confront this critical issue.

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138: Most of what you know about attachment is probably wrong

By Jen Lumanlan | Jun 6, 2021

In this episode, common misconceptions about attachment theory and relationships are debunked. Dr. John Bowlby, the pioneer of attachment theory, initially associated issues like theft and low self-worth with separation from parents but later clarified that this research was flawed. The evidence does not support the fear that temporary separations can harm children. It’s time to reevaluate our beliefs about attachment.

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137: Psychological Flexibility through ACT with Dr. Diana Hill

By Jen Lumanlan | May 23, 2021

Discover the power of psychological flexibility – a valuable trait associated with wellness and reduced anxiety. It’s about being fully present, aligning with your values, and making choices based on your values. Dr. Diana Hill, co-author of the book “ACT Daily Journal,” delves into Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help you enhance your psychological flexibility through practical exercises. Join us in this episode to unlock the potential of ACT for personal growth.

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136: Mother’s Day Momifesto

By Jen Lumanlan | May 8, 2021

As we transition from the liminal space of COVID-19, it’s a chance to rethink the world we want to create. Do we simply return to the old “normal,” or can we envision something better? Explore the possibilities in this Mother’s Day Momifesto, from deeper connections to reevaluating priorities and supporting families. It’s time to shape a more meaningful future.

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135: 5 reasons respectful parenting is so hard

By Jen Lumanlan | May 2, 2021

Discover the reasons why respectful parenting is challenging and what you can do about them in this episode. Learn why parents often feel exhausted despite adopting respectful parenting practices and how to overcome common obstacles in this approach to parenting. Gain insights from expert perspectives and real-life experiences to help you navigate the difficulties of respectful parenting.

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SYPM 012: From fear-filled conflict to parenting as a team

By Jen Lumanlan | Apr 25, 2021

Nicole shares her journey of parenting from a place of fear and control, rooted in her own upbringing by a single parent who had a traumatic childhood. Despite her core values of empathy, constant learning, and justice, Nicole struggled with the fear of not being a good enough parent and constantly sought information to bridge the gap between her struggles and her desired parenting style.

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134: Beyond Sex Education with Dr. Nadine Thornhill

By Jen Lumanlan | Apr 18, 2021

In this episode we build on our conversation with Charlotte Rose about sex for us parents to go (far) Beyond Sex Ed with sex educator Dr. Nadine Thornhill, whose direct, fun, engaging style will help you to see that you, too, can have conversations about sex and pleasure with your own children. 

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What Carys wants you to know about your children’s feelings

By Jen Lumanlan | Apr 11, 2021

In this special episode, our young guest Carys provides valuable insights into children’s emotions and how parents can offer support. Explore practical tips for understanding and connecting with your child during challenging moments. Don’t miss this heartwarming and insightful conversation on parenting.

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133: How the Things We Learned About Sex Impact Our Children

By Jen Lumanlan | Apr 4, 2021

In the first episode of our mini-series on sex-related topics, we discuss adult experiences and understanding of sex with Charlotte Rose, co-host of the Speaking of Sex podcast. Explore overcoming shame associated with sex and improving intimacy with your partner. This sets the stage for approaching discussions about sex, sexuality, and pleasure with your children in an upcoming episode.

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