Emotion Regulation

SYPM 013: Triggered all the time to emotional safety

By Jen Lumanlan | Jul 17, 2021

Learn how parent Chrystal transformed her approach, taking responsibility for her reactions instead of expecting change from her children and husband. Discover how she fostered her children’s agency, set boundaries, and achieved a more collaborative family dynamic. Explore her journey for parenting inspiration.

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137: Psychological Flexibility through ACT with Dr. Diana Hill

By Jen Lumanlan | May 23, 2021

Discover the power of psychological flexibility – a valuable trait associated with wellness and reduced anxiety. It’s about being fully present, aligning with your values, and making choices based on your values. Dr. Diana Hill, co-author of the book “ACT Daily Journal,” delves into Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help you enhance your psychological flexibility through practical exercises. Join us in this episode to unlock the potential of ACT for personal growth.

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SYPM 012: From fear-filled conflict to parenting as a team

By Jen Lumanlan | Apr 25, 2021

Nicole shares her journey of parenting from a place of fear and control, rooted in her own upbringing by a single parent who had a traumatic childhood. Despite her core values of empathy, constant learning, and justice, Nicole struggled with the fear of not being a good enough parent and constantly sought information to bridge the gap between her struggles and her desired parenting style.

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SYPM 011: Untigering with Iris Chen

By Jen Lumanlan | Jan 29, 2021

Discover the transformative journey of Iris Chen, as she shares her personal experiences and insights in her book “Untigering: Peaceful Parenting for the Deconstructing Tiger Parent.” Previously trapped in a cycle of control and power struggles with her son, Iris recognized the need for change and embarked on a path of peaceful parenting. Through her story, she emphasizes the importance of finding win-win solutions, flexibility, and respecting boundaries in fostering healthy parent-child relationships. Join us on this enlightening journey as we explore the concept of Untigering and its potential to create a society where everyone feels a sense of belonging.

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126: Problem Solving with Dr. Ross Greene

By Jen Lumanlan | Dec 6, 2020

In this episode, we explore the challenges parents face in problem-solving with their children and discuss an alternative approach to coercion. We interview Dr. Ross Greene, the creator of the Collaborative & Proactive Solutions method, as described in his books “The Explosive Child” and “Raising Human Beings.” We delve into the research behind this approach and address common parental concerns related to problem-solving. Topics covered include problem-solving with young children, dealing with recurring issues, managing transitions like leaving the park, and effectively communicating with children who struggle to express their feelings.

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