Modern Parenting

Q&A #1: Should I let my child hit me, or a pillow?

By Jen Lumanlan | Jan 22, 2023

Explore the question of how to help your preschooler manage anger in this episode. Should you consider buying inflatable boxing gloves or sticking with hitting a pillow? Delve into the options and their implications to make the best choice for your child.

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174: Support for Neurodivergent Parents with Dr. Rahimeh Andalibian & Sara Goodrich

By Jen Lumanlan | Dec 18, 2022

This episode is dedicated to supporting neurodivergent parents. Dr. A offers insights and resources to help identify neurodivergence in yourself or your partner and find the support you need. It’s especially relevant for parents who may have gone undiagnosed into adulthood.

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173: Why we shouldn’t read the “Your X-Year-Old Child” books any more

By Jen Lumanlan | Dec 4, 2022

In this episode, I critically examine the popular parenting books “Your One Year Old,” “Your Two Year Old,” and so on, by Louise Bates Ames. I question whether these books should be used as a guide for understanding children’s development due to their problematic cultural context.

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170: How to stop procrastinating with Dr. Fuschia Sirois

By Jen Lumanlan | Oct 23, 2022

This episode delves into the reasons behind procrastination and how it’s not simply about being disorganized or lazy. By understanding the emotional aspects of procrastination, you can find effective strategies to overcome it. Discover ways to support your child in managing procrastination as they grow.

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169: How to take care of yourself first with Liann Jensen

By Jen Lumanlan | Oct 9, 2022

In this episode, Liann shares her challenging journey into motherhood, from traumatic childbirth to a miscarriage and a subsequent pregnancy, all against the backdrop of the COVID-19 pandemic. Her toddler, Hewitt, struggled to adapt to the new baby, leading to behavioral issues that left Liann feeling overwhelmed and angry.

Discover how Liann learned to navigate these challenges and underwent transformative shifts in her parenting approach. By embracing self-compassion and unconventional solutions, she found a path that worked for her family. The episode emphasizes the power of non-cognitive shifts, where new insights become an integral part of the parenting journey.

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