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157: How to find your village

By Jen Lumanlan | May 19, 2022

In a special episode, listeners Jenny and Emma share their transformative journey of support. They started with different challenges but found solutions through connection within a parent community. Emma and her husband improved their communication, and Jenny resolved sleep and behavior issues with her son. Discover the power of collective support within the Parenting Membership.

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156: From desperation to collaboration

By Jen Lumanlan | May 15, 2022

Adrianna and Tim, seasoned parents, struggled to find effective solutions for their kids’ constant rivalry. Joining the Parenting Membership sparked a transformative journey. They discovered new approaches through community support, engaging in explicit conversations about their children’s needs and their own. Celebrate their remarkable transformation with us!

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155: How to get your child to listen to you

By Jen Lumanlan | May 1, 2022

Chrystal’s insightful approach to getting her spirited children to listen without raising entitled kids is a must-listen. She shares practical tools and collaborative strategies. Her success story proves that respectful parenting doesn’t create entitled children but fosters cooperation. Explore her transformative journey from battles to collaboration, inspired by the Setting Loving (& Effective!) Limits workshop.

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154: Authoritative isn’t the best Parenting “Style”

By Jen Lumanlan | Apr 24, 2022

Explore the world of parenting styles in this episode, including a surprising statement by Dr. Diana Baumrind, the creator of these styles. We delve into the effectiveness and impacts of different parenting styles, challenging common beliefs. Get ready for a thought-provoking discussion that reevaluates our understanding of authoritative parenting and the research behind it.

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153: Belonging: Remembering Ourselves Home

By Jen Lumanlan | Apr 17, 2022

Explore the wisdom of Toko-pa Turner’s book, “Belonging: Remembering Ourselves Home,” as we delve into the disconnection many of us feel from our true selves due to childhood experiences. It’s time to embrace our needs, seek help, and invite others to support us. Don’t miss upcoming opportunities to address your unmet needs and embark on a journey of self-discovery and fulfillment.

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SYPM 020: Preparing for the afterbirth with Renee Reina

By Jen Lumanlan | Apr 4, 2022

Renee Reina of The Mom Room shares her experience of setting boundaries with visitors after giving birth, creating a calm and peaceful environment. Discover how to navigate those early days of motherhood on your terms, regardless of societal norms.

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152: Everything you need to know about sleep training

By Jen Lumanlan | Mar 27, 2022

Macall Gordon, an expert with 20 years of experience in children’s sleep, as we explore the intersection between temperament and sleep. Get insights on supporting your child and addressing sleep training. Don’t miss this valuable episode for parents of infants to preschool-age kids.

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151: The Alphabet Rockers with Kaitlin McGaw and Tommy Shepherd

By Jen Lumanlan | Mar 20, 2022

Meet The Alphabet Rockers, a dynamic children’s band promoting inclusivity and belonging. Dive into their work, their book “You Are Not Alone,” and explore essential parenting and social issues.

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150: How to avoid passing on an eating disorder to our child with Dr. Shiri Sadeh-Sharvit

By Jen Lumanlan | Mar 6, 2022

Explore the impacts of disordered eating on children’s well-being with Dr. Shiri Sadeh-Sharvit, co-author of “Parents with Eating Disorders: An Intervention Guide.” Learn how to heal and prevent the passing down of these patterns to the next generation.

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SYPM 019: Why are you always so angry?

By Jen Lumanlan | Feb 20, 2022

Join Iris on her transformative journey as she learns to prioritize her needs and respond to her daughter’s behavior with empathy. Discover the power of self-compassion and empathy in parenting, reducing guilt and shame spirals along the way.

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149: How to set the boundaries you need

By Jen Lumanlan | Feb 13, 2022

Explore the ongoing challenge of setting boundaries in parenting in this episode. We delve into the reasons why boundaries can be difficult to establish, rooted in patriarchal relationship norms. Additionally, we discuss how breaking down boundaries between ourselves and our communities can reduce stress and isolation, making parenting more manageable. Join the conversation to uncover the dynamics of boundaries in parenting and relationships.

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148: Is spanking a child really so bad?

By Jen Lumanlan | Feb 6, 2022

Dive into the contentious topic of spanking in parenting in this thought-provoking episode. Our guest, Professor Andrew Grogan-Kaylor, views spanking as an Adverse Childhood Experience akin to severe trauma. We explore the ethical dimensions of physical punishment and discuss the quirks of past research that once supported spanking’s efficacy. Discover alternative approaches to parenting that foster intrinsic motivation in children, without resorting to punitive measures.

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