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129: The physical reasons you yell at your kids
Discover the reasons behind yelling at our children, even when we know we shouldn’t, and why simply knowing what to do isn’t always enough to align with our parenting values. Explore how past trauma can trigger our responses to our children’s behavior, and how it’s important to take a different path and learn new tools to respond effectively. Understand the deep connection between these feelings and our bodies, and the significance of processing trauma to create a healthier parenting experience.
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SYPM 011: Untigering with Iris Chen
Discover the transformative journey of Iris Chen, as she shares her personal experiences and insights in her book “Untigering: Peaceful Parenting for the Deconstructing Tiger Parent.” Previously trapped in a cycle of control and power struggles with her son, Iris recognized the need for change and embarked on a path of peaceful parenting. Through her story, she emphasizes the importance of finding win-win solutions, flexibility, and respecting boundaries in fostering healthy parent-child relationships. Join us on this enlightening journey as we explore the concept of Untigering and its potential to create a society where everyone feels a sense of belonging.
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128: Should I Redshirt My Child?
Discover the redshirting phenomenon and its implications for parents considering holding their child back a year before kindergarten or first grade. Explores the origins of redshirting in Malcolm Gladwell’s book “Outliers” and addresses the concerns raised by statisticians regarding its statistical claims. Gain insights into how redshirting may affect your child’s individual development and the classroom dynamics.
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Dismantling White Supremacy and Patriarchy on MLK Day
Explore our insightful ad hoc episode where we discuss dismantling white supremacy, patriarchy, and capitalism on Martin Luther King Jr. Day. Join us in reflecting on the importance of building a supportive community and breaking free from the ‘stay in my lane’ mindset. Together, let’s make this work relevant beyond the holiday and throughout the year.
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Responding to the U.S. Capitol Siege
Explore our ad hoc episode addressing the U.S. Capitol siege. Gain guidance on discussing the events with your child and delve into self-reflection on personal involvement. Take action towards equality based on your own position and role in the world. Join the conversation for understanding, introspection, and positive change.
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127: Doing Self-Directed Education
Join us in a profound conversation with Akilah Richards as we explore interest-led learning and self-directed education. Akilah shares her personal experiences growing up in a strict Jamaican family and discusses the limitations of traditional schooling. We delve into the concept of respect, suppression of emotions, and the need for individuality in a child’s learning journey. Discover how interest-led learning can nurture a child’s love for learning while fostering a deeper parent-child relationship. Challenge conventional educational norms and embrace a more empowering approach to education.
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SYPM 010: From Anxious Overwhelm to Optimistic Calm
Listener Anne shares her parenting journey. From initially seeking perfection to finding peace as a perfectly good enough parent, Anne’s story inspires us to embrace imperfections and nurture positive relationships with our children. Tune in for valuable insights and reassurance in your own parenting journey.
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126: Problem Solving with Dr. Ross Greene
In this episode, we explore the challenges parents face in problem-solving with their children and discuss an alternative approach to coercion. We interview Dr. Ross Greene, the creator of the Collaborative & Proactive Solutions method, as described in his books “The Explosive Child” and “Raising Human Beings.” We delve into the research behind this approach and address common parental concerns related to problem-solving. Topics covered include problem-solving with young children, dealing with recurring issues, managing transitions like leaving the park, and effectively communicating with children who struggle to express their feelings.
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SYPM 009: How to Set Boundaries in Parenting
Join life coach and reparenting expert Xavier Dagba in an insightful discussion on the topic of boundaries in parenting. Discover how our cultural upbringing often neglects teaching children about boundaries and the impact this has on our ability to set and enforce boundaries as adults. Explore the distinction between boundaries and limits, gaining a deeper understanding of their role in our interactions with children. Empower yourself with valuable insights and strategies to establish healthy boundaries and reclaim a sense of personal agency in your parenting journey.
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125: Should you worry about technoference?
Discover expert insights on managing screen usage around children in this informative episode featuring Dr. Jenny Radesky, a leading researcher in the field. Learn about the impact of screen time on child self-regulation and parent-child interaction, and explore practical steps to navigate and find balance in your own or your partner’s screen habits. Gain valuable knowledge to create a healthy digital environment for your family.
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SYPM 008: Fostering Positive Sibling Relationships with Future Focused Parenting
We discuss ways to stop being the person who always has to moderate every disagreement and instead equip our children with the skills they need to find solutions to their own problems with Kira Dorrian and Deana Thayer of Future Focused Parenting, who host the Raising Adults podcast.
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124: The Art of Holding Space
Discover the transformative practice of “holding space” as a parent in this insightful episode. We explore the concept popularized by Heather Plett through her widely-shared article and her new book, “The Art of Holding Space: A Practice of Love, Liberation, and Leadership.” With guidance and support, we delve into the principles of holding space and its significance in parenting. Learn how to create an environment that fosters empathy, compassion, and the ability to hold space for others in your children. Gain valuable insights on cultivating a practice of love, liberation, and leadership within your family.
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