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169: How to take care of yourself first with Liann Jensen

By Jen Lumanlan | Oct 9, 2022

In this episode, Liann shares her challenging journey into motherhood, from traumatic childbirth to a miscarriage and a subsequent pregnancy, all against the backdrop of the COVID-19 pandemic. Her toddler, Hewitt, struggled to adapt to the new baby, leading to behavioral issues that left Liann feeling overwhelmed and angry.

Discover how Liann learned to navigate these challenges and underwent transformative shifts in her parenting approach. By embracing self-compassion and unconventional solutions, she found a path that worked for her family. The episode emphasizes the power of non-cognitive shifts, where new insights become an integral part of the parenting journey.

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168: Feeling Triggered by Current Events

By Jen Lumanlan | Oct 2, 2022

In this episode, we address the emotional impact of global events on parenting and offer strategies to regulate emotions and foster autonomy. If you’re dealing with triggered feelings from external factors or past traumas, this episode provides valuable insights and tools for effective navigation.

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167: Healing and Helping with Mutual Aid with Dean Spade

By Jen Lumanlan | Sep 25, 2022

In this enlightening conversation with Dean Spade, we delve into the concept of mutual aid, exploring how it offers a more effective alternative to traditional volunteering. We discuss the healing power of community and how mutual aid can address the systemic challenges we face. This episode sheds light on how these ideas relate to parenting, especially in the context of the Taming Your Triggers workshop.

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166: Learning to trust your child – and yourself

By Jen Lumanlan | Sep 11, 2022

Claire’s journey through child-led learning and homeschooling highlights the importance of trusting your child and yourself as a parent. She’s found a way to balance her child’s natural curiosity and exploration with her own role as a guide on the side. This episode emphasizes the value of fostering compassion and self-compassion, both in ourselves and in our children, as we navigate the world of education and personal growth.

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165: How grit helps (and how it doesn’t)

By Jen Lumanlan | Aug 26, 2022

Explore the concept of “Doing Hard Things” and how it relates to fostering grit and a love of learning in your child. Discover effective ways to support your child’s learning journey, even if you’re not an expert or lack a teaching credential. This episode delves into these essential aspects of parenting and education.

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164: Supporting Neurodivergent Children with Dr. Hanna Bertilsdotter-Rosqvist

By Jen Lumanlan | Aug 21, 2022

Explore the concept of neurodiversity, with a focus on autism, in this insightful episode featuring Dr. Hanna Bertilsdotter-Rosqvist. Learn about the potential ways that schools, workplaces, and society as a whole can better accommodate neurodivergent individuals, fostering inclusion, and benefiting from their unique perspectives and strengths. Neurodiversity isn’t limited to autism but encompasses a wide range of neurological variations, making it an important topic for everyone.

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163: Should children vote? with Dr. John Wall

By Jen Lumanlan | Aug 14, 2022

In this thought-provoking episode, Dr. John Wall challenges the conventional notions of “childism” and argues for giving children the vote. As you listen, you’ll discover a new perspective on children’s capabilities and their ability to contribute to meaningful discussions and decisions. This episode invites you to reconsider your assumptions about children’s understanding of the world and value their unique perspectives and insights.

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162: Supporting children through grief with Katie Lear

By Jen Lumanlan | Jul 31, 2022

This episode builds on our conversation with Dr. Atle Dyregrov on the topic of talking with children about death, where we focused mainly on death as a general concept and navigating the first few days after the death. Grief therapist Katie Lear has a new book called A Parent’s Guide to Managing Childhood Grief and…

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161: New masculinites for older boys with Dr. Michael Kehler & Caroline Brunet

By Jen Lumanlan | Jul 17, 2022

In this thought-provoking podcast episode, we explore the concept of masculinity and its impact on children. We discuss how traditional notions of masculinity can affect both boys and girls, and offer insights on fostering alternative masculinities for a more holistic upbringing. Join us in this enlightening conversation with Dr. Michael Kehler, a Research Professor in Masculinities Studies, as we uncover ways parents can support their children in a changing world. Discover the keys to raising emotionally healthy kids.

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160: Wanting What’s Best with Sarah Jaffe

By Jen Lumanlan | Jul 3, 2022

Delve into a fresh perspective on parenting and privilege with Sarah W. Jaffe’s upcoming book. It sheds light on how the choices predominantly well-off, White parents make impact others, offering insights into aligning decisions with values. Stay tuned for the September 2023 release, a vital addition to the dialogue on parenting, privilege, and equality.

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159: Supporting Girls’ Relationships with Dr. Marnina Gonick

By Jen Lumanlan | Jun 19, 2022

Explore the intricacies of girls’ relationships in our culture with Dr. Marnina Gonick. In this episode, we discuss why girls may sometimes exhibit “mean” behaviors and whether these are choices or influenced by societal pressures. Gain valuable insights from Dr. Gonick, a Canada Research Chair in Gender, as she delves into girls’ roles in our society and their potential to bring about change. Stay tuned for more on boys’ relationships in upcoming episodes.

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158: Deconstructing Developmental Psychology with Dr. Erica Burman

By Jen Lumanlan | Jun 5, 2022

In the world of child development, Dr. Erica Burman’s book “Deconstructing Developmental Psychology” challenges conventional research by revealing hidden influences in studies. She encourages us to dig deeper and question if we’re reinforcing outdated ideas of “success” that no longer serve us or our children. Explore her thought-provoking insights and redefine how we approach child development.

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